Changes of Life Coaching

✨ You Were Built Outside the Lines.
Thrive Like They Never Mattered. ✨

Life coaching for individuals and couples ready to move beyond code-switching, burnout, and survival mode
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and step into clarity, confidence, and authentic living.

Your Path To Change

🔍 Awareness — Notice your patterns and struggles without judgement.🎯 Alignment — Clarify values and vision so your goals reflect the real you.🚀 Action — Turn insight into progress with simple, sustainable steps.🌟 Actualization — Step fully into authenticity, resilience, and confidence.**A Simple 4-step framework to help you grow with clarity and confidence.**

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Your path to change

From Clarity to Confidence.
from Action to Authenticity.

🔍 Awareness — Discover Where You Are
The first step to change is clarity. We’ll take an honest look at your patterns, struggles, and strengths — not to judge, but to understand. This awareness shines a light on what’s holding you back and where you can grow.🎯 Alignment — Define Who You Want to Be
Once you see where you are, it’s time to get clear on where you want to go. Alignment means clarifying your values, vision, and goals so they reflect the real you — not outside expectations.🚀 Action — Take Consistent Steps Forward
Change doesn’t happen overnight, but it does happen through consistent action. Together we’ll turn insight into momentum by building habits, setting boundaries, and taking simple, sustainable steps that move you forward.🌟 Actualization — Live as Your Best Self
This is where it all comes together. Actualization is about fully stepping into authenticity, resilience, and confidence. You’ll start living as your best self — not someday, but every day, in real and practical ways.

The Heartbeat
Behind Changes of Life

Born From Experience.
Built For You.

I know what it’s like to feel stuck, overlooked, or worn down. I’ve lived through high-pressure workplaces, tough transitions, and the daily reality of code-switching. I also know the challenges of living openly as LGBTQ+ — balancing identity, acceptance, and resilience in spaces not built for us.Through those experiences, I built resilience, strength, and clarity — not all at once, but one step at a time.That’s why I created Changes of Life: to give others the kind of space I wish I had — a place where you can see yourself clearly, build confidence, and take real steps toward lasting transformation. This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about growing into the version of yourself that feels most true — and doing it without carrying the weight alone.

Voices that matter

Real People.
Real Breakthroughs.

DJ helped me see my patterns and finally start setting boundaries. For the first time, I feel like I’m not just surviving at work — I’m thriving in life.
"— Monica, Seattle, WA"The Changes of Life Method helped me reconnect with myself. One step at a time really works.
"— James, Atlanta, GA"Working with DJ gave me the courage to stop code-switching and start showing up as my real self. That shift changed everything.
"— Alicia, Denver, CO"DJ’s coaching gave me the space to finally stop shrinking myself. As someone in the LGBTQ+ community, I’d spent years code-switching just to be accepted. For the first time, I feel free to be me.
"— Marcus, Chicago, IL"